Sadly, domestic violence and abuse happen a lot more often than you’d think. In the United States, over 20 people are physically abused by their intimate partner every minute. That’s excluding emotional and sexual abuse. About 10 million people are victims of domestic violence, not counting the many incidents that go unreported. It is difficult to break from the oppression and see the signs of domestic abuse, so we have compiled a list of signs so you can take adequate action.

Signs of Physical Abuse

The following are some signs if you or a loved one has been a victim of physical domestic violence:

• Sustained bruising, scars, broken bones, etc.;
• Have been hit, kicked, punched, choked, or slapped;
• Threatened with a weapon;
• Sustained injuries from a weapon;
• Forced to use drugs or intake alcohol;
• Abandoned in an unfamiliar place;
• or Subjected to reckless driving.

Signs of Emotional Abuse

Below are some signs that you or a loved one has sustained emotional abuse:

• Have been demeaned or belittled;
• been called names;
• humiliated in public;
• obsessively accused of being unfaithful;
• been cheated on;
• isolated from family or friends;
• stalked by your partner;
• told what to eat, where to be, and where to sleep;
• or obligated to dress a certain way.

Signs of Sexual Abuse

You or a loved one may be suffering from sexual abuse if the following signs apply:

• You’re forced to dress in a specific sexual manner;
• Forced to have sex even if you/they don’t want to;
• Forced to perform sexual acts;
• Physical abuse during sex;
• Forced to make pornography;
• Intentionally given an STD;
• Forced to have sex after physical abuse;
• Forced to have sex with others.

Knowing if You’re a Victim

You or a loved one may have experienced one or more of the above signs in your own relationship. But, some of these actions, without context, are enough to be domestic violence. So here are a few questions, if you can answer yes, honestly, then you may be a victim of abuse:

• Has your partner insulted or humiliated you in public?
• Does your partner force you to describe your every move when you’re not with them?
• Is your partner angry all the time?
• Does your partner scare you?
• Does your partner force you to do drugs?
• Are you not able to interact with certain people, including your family, because of your partner?
• Does your partner force you to have sex with them?
• Has your partner threatened to kill you?

If you have answered yes to any of these questions, do not hesitate to reach out to The National Domestic Violence Hotline for help at 800-799-7233. Our expert attorneys can also assist you in any legal claims including divorce or legal separations. Call today and receive a consultation.